A big part of Melinda’s and my parenting style can be summed up quite simply – it’s to create and maintain a loving environment that allows our kids to feel safe. Feeling safe, they naturally challenge themselves, moving from one developmental stage to the next in a way that makes the distinctions between the stages invisible.

Of course, this is much easier said than done. But I think it IS possible to stay rooted on the concept of a loving environment.

I love today’s picture of Ella, what actually inspired this post. It’s from 1998, right after we moved into our house in Seattle. We found the American flag on our doorstep, a gift from a realtor. And notice the saltwater sandal in her mouth and the yellow Converse sneakers on the floor to the right. Just what might Ella be thinking here?

Today’s Prompt: Summarize a life philosophy of yours in a sentence.