Crazy Parents

This one may be more for you parents out there although I encourage everyone to play along by considering this as it pertains to yourself. Today’s question asks you to share something silly or funny you’ve done with (to?) your child.

For instance, today’s photo comes from a trip to Idaho Melinda, Chloe and I took in 1994. Chloe was a toddler, as you may be able to tell, and the house at which we were staying had some beautiful landscaping that included this fountain. We put Chloe in the fountain and snapped a series of pictures, this being but one. We laughed and laughed.

Sometimes it’s hard to believe our children survive to adulthood.

Today’s Question: What’s a nutty thing you’ve done with your kid?

More Real People

Yesterday I introduced you to Michael who just so happens to be a plumber. He was back at PSCS today and fixed another toilet. Today I met Bob, the man who came and removed the tree that fell overnight across the walkway entrance to the school. Tonight, Melinda and I met Perry, the notary who came to our house to assist in the process we undertook to take advantage of lower interest rates and refinance our home loan.

I made a point of talking to each person and referring to them by name, something I intend to make a more regular practice.

Oh, the named girl in today’s photo is, in fact, Chloe, as I hope you can tell. Yes, Chloe, as in our daughter who is now in college.

Today’s Question: Who is a real person you saw today?

Meet Michael

Long story short. We had a plumbing issue at PSCS today. Michael, seen in today’s picture, was the plumber who made things right. I thoroughly enjoyed chatting with him and asked if he might pose next to the site of his fine work (yeah, he replaced a valve in the urinal) and give me permission to post the photo and a short story on the Internet.

You see, Michael is a natural teacher who just so happens to be a plumber. More importantly, he is a thoughtful human being who cares about quality. He asked me about the school to gain insight into the work he does with apprentice plumbers. He listened carefully and asked insightful questions.

The whole experience got me thinking how often I take for granted the people who come to my house or to my place of work to provide a service. Do I see “the plumber” or do I see a person?

Today I met Michael, a person.

Today’s Question: What’s the name of the person who delivers your mail?

House or Museum?

The adorable child in today’s picture is none other than Melinda (remember, click on a photo to see it enlarged). I found it while looking through our boxes of stored photographs. I don’t recall ever having seen it before and, in a word, I think it’s fantastic. It should be framed and put up in our house.

That being said, Melinda sometimes accuses me of wanting to turn our house into a museum. I like museums. I wouldn’t mind living in one. And if I did live in a museum I WOULD fill the walls with pictures like this one. Others, too, like those my great-grandfather took of his son, my maternal grandfather, when he was a little boy. And I’ve got my collection of vintage Ravenna Park postcards and…

Hmmm… Maybe I should put those postcards on CraigsList.

Today’s Question: What is the oldest item on display in your house?

Once Upon a Time We Owned a Horse

Today’s photo is hot off the scanner. That’s Melinda and me, you bet. And the animal with us is a horse. Our horse. A 3 year-old filly by Table Run fresh off the racetrack. Yup, way back in 1991 we rented a farm on the Sammamish plateau and bought a horse. Melinda named her Sasha.

My horse trainer friend Tom, who brokered Sasha’s purchase for us, said a couple of funny things the day he delivered the horse. The first was said with a little more serious tone than the second. He told me that he hoped our friendship survived him bringing us a horse.

The second thing he said, punctuated by his big booming laugh, is something I’ve heard in reference to other purchases, like cars and boats. About the horse Tom said, “You can never tell your favorite day as a horse owner. The day you buy the horse or the day you sell it.”

Today’s Question: Have you ever made a purchase like that?

The Value of One’s Time

I’m a self-proclaimed nostalgia sap. I love looking at old photos and reminiscing about the past. As such, I have a strong desire to get all of our old photos digitized. We have thousands, literally. And I’d like to get them into our iPhoto library, next to all the digital photos we have from the more recent past.

Scanning them all, one by one, takes a lot of time. For instance, it took me about 3 minutes to scan in today’s photo, which was taken in Olympia, WA on January 1, 1991, the day after Melinda and I were married. We went to Olympia to announce to some close friends that we had gotten married (a surprise to everyone but Melinda and me). I’m very pleased to have a digital version of this picture. Like I said, it took me about 3 minutes to get it.

But thousands of pictures at 3 minutes each is thousands of minutes of my time. I could pay $200 to have 1000 pictures digitized and put on a DVD.

Should I do that?

Today’s Question: What are things you know how to do but pay to have someone else do them for you?

Snow Day x 3

For this unexpected “no school” day, I accompanied Melinda and Ella on what would have taken place for the two of them today if school had been in session, a trip to Alpental for a day of skiing. That’s right, Ella & Melinda go skiing every Friday. Ella does it as part of the independent study program provided to students at PSCS. And Melinda does it because she has Fridays off. Normally, Melinda’s parents go with them but they had another event. Home from school, I decided to tag along.

Today’s picture is of Ella up on the slopes just before her first run of the day. I took this picture and a couple of others before retiring to the lodge with a book (“The Virtue Driven Life,” if you’re interested). It was a tad chilly up there and I’m not a skier. I blame the latter on my Nebraskan roots although I’m sure it’s either far more complicated or much simpler than that.

Today’s Question: What sports do members of your family play but you don’t?

Snow Day x 2

For the second of what I’ve learned will be three snow days this week (yes, school has been cancelled for tomorrow) I present this photo of Brayden, son of PSCS teaching staff member, Scobie. Scobie managed to swing by today for a visit and told us about his epic day sledding with Brayden at Gasworks Park, from where this picture was taken.

Now to understand Scobie you have to know that he is a design genius. When he realized that they didn’t have a suitable sled, what did he do? He made one. In his shop. In 20 minutes. And it was so much the best one on the hill that others asked where they could buy one.

Yeah, that’s Scobie.

Today’s Question: What is something you made for your child or a parent made for you?

Snow Day!

As a kid, that’s a priceless phrase. Snow day. Not only does it mean no school, it means getting to play in the snow! Such is the experience we had in Seattle today, a snow day. And as it turns out, due to concern for icy road conditions in the morning, we’ll be having another one tomorrow. Wow!

This got me thinking about other phrases that bring smiles to the faces of kids. Help me out by answering today’s question, okay? Meanwhile, enjoy this photo of Chloe from a snow day of a year gone by (click on it to enlarge it). Speaking of Chloe, she just emailed me from college, commenting that Seattle is pretty wimpy compared to our Canadian neighbors. She’s got 6 inches of snow and a negative wind chill factor and is busy writing a paper.

No snow days in college, I guess.

Today’s Question: What phrase or word makes kids smile?

Vonnegut, Waits & Costello

I like to joke with the students at PSCS about the REAL graduation requirements of the school. Our handbooks and school literature all say something about attendance and senior projects and stuff like that, etc, etc. But the real deal is much simpler.

To graduate, the students have to take a “Kurt Vonnegut” class (facilitated by ME) and their parents have to appreciate the music of Tom Waits (I explain that I just can’t expect teens to appreciate Tom Waits, but their parents, now that’s another story).

I got to thinking about this today as I found this picture of Chloe from 1993. Way back then I was trying to get her to appreciate Elvis Costello and shared with her this magazine article over graham crackers and juice, the afternoon snack. I put on his latest CD, “Brutal Youth” (an apt title if ever there was one for a baby with a father like me) and we got busy.

Today’s Question: What’s important to you that you want your kids (or someone else’s kids) to know about?