(Welcome to the new “French Sabbatical Blog.” I’ve made a lot of changes, including writing four new “pages,” each of which you can read by clicking on “About,” “French Sabbatical,” “A Story,” and “Meet Andy” above. While I’ll continue to post each day here, it’s not my intention to have every posting be about something my family has done that day. For instance, today I want to tell you about Melinda’s and my “first date.”)
“This is not a date!”
So said Melinda to me as we walked from the Seattle Center to my car.
We were heading to Longacres, the racetrack in Seattle, having just seen a concert. Melinda knew I had connections at the track that would allow easy access to the horses. Since she’d taken up riding, she was interested in seeing some thoroughbreds in training. But she wanted to make it clear to me that going to look at horses did not indicate romantic interest on her part. “This is not a date,” she said. “Um, okay,” was my eloquent response.
Of course we were married less than four months later, what happens to be exactly 21 years and 1 day ago. Sometimes I ask Melinda if we’ve had a date yet.
Today’s Question: What constitutes a “date?”









